It’s More Than a Bed

The early morning hours find our king-sized bed full of children. Sometimes they are snoozing. Sometimes I awake to the chatter of tiny voices. Quite often I am reminded of the elementary school song, “Ten bears in the bed, and the little one said…roll over…I’m crowded.”
Yes, it is crowded, but I wouldn’t [...]

Really Listening to Your Child

“Just a minute.”
How many times a day do I put my children off? I’ve become more aware lately as I push and drag myself into parenting consciousness.
I adore my children. I want to know all about them. As I saw them acting out my failings on me, I realized that love [...]

Nurturing Empathy for Nature

My friend has multiple chemical sensitivities. Neither her ex-husband nor her parents seem able to grasp how the environments they create effect her. When someone tells her she is imagining health issues, I see her give up a little every time.
My friend blogs about environmental impact. Despite his ability to grasp environmental [...]

Make Sure You Leave Space

Do you leave space for your child to explore and develop?
Does your child have the time to ask her or himself, “What do I think?” or “Who am I?”
As I’ve been thinking about parenting styles recently, specifically nonviolent communication and positive discipline, I find it very important to be conscious enough to [...]

I Love Dirt!

Parenting by Nature just added a new department to our store, The Natural Library. Nature Mom fell in love with this series of books after receiving ‘I Love Dirt’ as a gift.

In ‘I Love Dirt’ there is a nature activity for each week (52 in total) that cover all four seasons. At the end [...]

Positive Discipline, Kind and Firm

We all want to guide our children to become confident, independent people capable of self-discipline. It isn’t necessarily obvious for a parent to figure out how to get them there, though. As a parenting model, Positive Discipline seeks to give parents tools to build independence and confidence in their children, avoiding the fear [...]

Plantable Seed Valentine’s Day Cards

If your children are looking forward to making Valentine’s Day cards, help them celebrate by sharing the coming spring. Children can easily make plantable paper, embedded with seeds.
This is a simple craft project that could even be a step into more serious and creative papermaking.

Materials

Recyclable paper - Make it porous paper like a [...]

Chocolate - It’s About Dignity and Sustainability

Mmm. Chocolate. Valentine’s Day approaches, and there are many opportunities to indulge in a little piece of delight as it melts at your body temperature spreading across your tongue. Dark chocolate, milk chocolate, chocolate bars, chocolate chip cookies, chocolate nibs, chocolate cake. I adore chocolate.
Once your body chemistry returns to its pre-cocoa levels, or [...]

Nonviolent Communication with Children

I aspire to meet my children’s needs through clear, honest communication. I first met attachment parenting while pregnant with my first child, and I first met nonviolent communication (NVC) while pregnant with my second.
“NVC shares two key premises with attachment parenting: Human actions are motivated by attempts to meet needs, and trusting relationships [...]

Reminding Myself to Get Life Right

Groundhog Day is one of my favorite movies—one of those I can watch over and over. Every time, it reminds me of such a great lesson: we have to live consciously and deliberately to get life right.
Phil Connor, the mean-spirited weatherman, wakes up and lives the same day every day for what [...]